Bi/Pan erasure is prevalent and needs to stop please I want to share a little story time with you in order to show how ‘normalised’ bi/pan sexual erasure is in our everyday society, and why it’s such a problem. Let’s set the scene shall we? It’s January the 4th. Frost adorned the ground leaving a chill…

Told by the sarcastic Brit — If you have read some of my other posts you will know that I am currently living in the UK, and in a long distance relationship with my partner who lives in America. If you didn’t already know that, then, well, now you do. With lockdowns and travel restrictions during…

Medium just makes it seem like I do — Hello lovelies! I hope you are all enjoying a lovely holiday season! I haven’t posted in a while, and though I was avoiding writing yet another post about Medium (because it can feel like there are too many post about the platform already), it feels like Medium is forcing my…

Why we need to stop asking this question — Back in 2015 my (now ex) husband took me on a surprise trip across Vietnam. This was a dream come true for me, and an experience I will never forget. Seriously, I love that country so much! We traveled to and stayed in different places throughout our trip so we…

Pulling away from society’s gendered views of what makes us attractive — As an afab person (somebody assigned female at birth), I was often put into frilly dresses as a child, and I had an impressive collection of pink and frilly outfits, because I was a girl. In fact, my mum often tells the story of how she used to put pink…

And that’s okay — Trigger Warning: This post contains topics including depression. If you think this might be triggering, please stop reading. Your well-being is important. I must warn you lovelies in advance that this post is not my usual style. In fact, I fear it may even become a little rambling. …

A difficult time of year doesn’t mean you can’t have fun Tis the season! The air is colder (here in the UK at least), and it nibbles at my nose, making me appreciate a hot mug of steaming hot chocolate at the end of the day. …

A big recovery win to be celebrated — Okay, okay, it’s McDonald’s, nothing to write home about. People go to Maccy D’s all of the time. Heck, as a kid, when out shopping with the parents it was odd if we didn’t take a visit to get our happy meals. It’s just something we do. When we are…

Why this is harder to hear than you’d think — ‘Great news everything came back to normal.’ This is usually the report you hope to hear from your doctor about your blood test results. I certainly never expected to be sat in the GP surgery with my fingers crossed that they would actually find something. Yet, there I was. Why the heck would you want that? Okay…